Quick Exit
FORUMS

Connect with people who understand what you are going through, seek advice and surround yourself with support. We're free, anonymous, and professionally moderated 24/7.

  • 47,612Members
  • 1,358,869Posts
  • 1,400,000Visitors
Shoulder to Shoulder: Veterans
Shoulder to Shoulder: Veterans

Finding your purpose after leaving service

Finding your purpose after leaving service

Hey Veterans,

 

Thanks so much for being part of the community here with your peers!

 

I haven’t posted in a while, so I wanted to touch base and have been thinking about my life with my father and our family lately. And how his service in the Navy impacted us and helped shape my life. Bit of a back story if you haven’t seen my posts about dad before, he left the Navy before I was born after 16.5 years of service. Then he worked as a civilian on various bases around Australia for most of the time I was growing up and living at home.

 

He had a lot of values and attributes that he took from the Navy, and he always was working hard at home, volunteering and at work. He found a real sense of purpose making our family home a very tidy and well-kept place and did all his own repairs and improvements. He also was an avid volunteer with St Vincent de Paul and became the President of our local store. He used to take me on deliveries and pickups to ensure the people in need got what they needed to feel comfortable and make their place a home. Then later in life he worked with a local aboriginal council supporting the local community and becoming a valued and respected support for them.

 

Dad always spoke fondly of his time in the Navy and his experiences as a Chief Petty Officer. And he instilled his values and beliefs about the military and respect he had for the other members of our family who had served in us. It gave him a real sense of purpose being part of the military and I saw that in the way he got involved with other things. I think having a sense of purpose is something that I have inherited from him and I have the same values and attributes dad displayed towards life.

 

I’m curious what helped you regain a sense of purpose, or what are you still searching for? 

 

Thanks again for being part of the community and I’m really looking forward to hearing about sense of purpose from you!

 

Thank you

 

RiverSeal

 

Just tagging a few Members who might share similar interests:

 

@Oaktree @Azalea @yggdrasil @Ocean11 @ajp @Breakfast68 @Faz22 @Toowrite @MamiyaFan @Sir @r3fresh @ccau_82 @Magpie22 @Heyyou @BecomingOkay @flower881 @Lapis_Anteater @S1TREP @GalaxyGuide @Journeyman @MtLittleJoe @Boots2Glutes @rosieC13 @Ruth_Clare @Caring_wife @EchoGirl @CJ130 @Enewt95 @Cally1 @LG @Ru-bee @TomBombadil@KOBI1DOC @goatlatte @RugbyAFL @NikooJalilvand @OA_24 @PeppyPatti 

6 replies

In response to: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Hi @RiverSeal for me it was working to support others as a Volunteer. I have and currently still volunteer in a way that I am able to still support the community. I have been part of the SES and still am part of the RFS and a Mentor in the Australian Army Cadets. and more recently I have volunteered to be a director on a non-profit board that works to better youth education. For me this has given me purpose and makes me personally feel I have done my best to continue to give back and be part of my community.

 

 

In response to: Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

What amazing ways to give back to your community and foster a strong sense of purpose @BecomingOkay particularly that recent volunteer director role, that sounds really interesting, have you always had an interest in the area of youth education?

In response to: Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

That's amazing @BecomingOkay!!

 

Sounds like you have really discovered a new sense of purpose in volunteering and being on boards. I see volunteering as part of a career where we get a chance to contribute in a way that may not be possible if we were seeking paid work. And it allows us to use our skills and knowledge to better the lives of others.

 

Well done ✔️

 

Thanks for contributing to the discussion!!

 

RiverSeal ❤️ 

In response to: Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Hi @Ru-bee, I haven't always thought about it. But after volunteering with the Army Cadets and having worked in a school for a few years, I have seen the struggles that youth currently face in navigating education in its current form and the debilitating affect it can have on youth mental health. Being on a board of directors working on youth education and working at the federal level I hope helps better direct the development of education practices. As I am writing this, I am chairing a state Parent and Citizen Association General meeting with the Territory member for education on Early childhood education. It never stops, but wouldn't have it any other way.

In response to: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Dear,

He can volunteer at the local museum like Maritime museum, which will be close to his heart.

 

In response to: Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

Re: Finding your purpose after leaving service

I respect you all so much. I'm a milwife, so with mine returning soon, and he has retired, I have been looking into many ways I can support him personally. As he adjusts to civilian life and decompresses from the highly charged environment of being in defence and the lifestyle and stress of 26 years of service.

I've got his back and it's awesome to be able to help him with his journey transitioning back into regular society as I can only imagine it will have many layers of complexity and moments attached.

Thanks ♥️ to our members who share these stories. It goes a long way, you're impact is huge. 🫡🫡🫂🫂🪖💞💞💞🙌

Reply to thread

to reply.