Time to discharge?

Hi @gellyo, I just wanted to welcome you to the space. It sounds like you're at quite a crossroads, so I'm glad that you're here seeking a bit of guidance. 

Not sure if it's relevant but you're welcome to have a read through of our own @RiverSeal's post about Finding purpose after leaving Service - I can imagine they and others in that thread would be open to connecting and chatting on this topic with you. 

I hope you find what you're looking for in this community 😊

Hi @gellyo 

welcome to shoulder to shoulder 

it’s a great question to ask… I understand wanting to prioritise stability for your child - I also switched between full time and part time service to stay in one location. 

leaving on your own terms gives some sense of control that others haven’t had, but you will still face an adjustment period. Especially if you have always or mostly worked in ADF. While working in “civvie street” can be just as fulfilling and rewarding, I certainly felt a real difference in culture. And also in stability. You haven’t said what sort of work you would be looking for, but I would definitely consider public service (state or federal) to get that stable bubble you refer to. 

I have supported a few mates thru this, as well as my own journey so happy to provide more guidance if you had specific questions. 

It’s great that you are starting to think about this now too. If you think you might need more education to get a meaningful role outside, you can also look at defence sponsored study options. Maybe starting to learn something new will help you get thru this time when you feel less fulfilled. 

You sound like you’ve really thought this out and have started some of the ground work already. 

And yes - I absolutely moved between full time and part time service to suit what was going to work for my family and to remain in one place. 

Is there anything stopping you starting your studies now? Even doing one subject per semester can help you get your brain back into study (I went back to uni at 48 years old in the last couple of years of my last full time ADF role and it was a real adjustment). You can then access DASS or whatever it is called now to help pay for your study and reduce your HECS debt. 
Griffith Uni have a veteran success officer so it might be worth talking to them now?